Saturday, January 19, 2013

Relationship Reflection



Reflecting on Building Relationships

·         Relationships are /partnerships are important to me because it develop trust and help build your health and social/ emotional development. It also builds your confident into the person that you can talk to, and no worries for what you talked about will ever leak out to others. Relationships are important because it also promotes health lives people live longer, and fewer stressors, heart pressure, because you can respond better to these issues better.

Identify several people with whom you currently have positive relationships and /or partnerships:
1. Mr. and Mrs. Jim Q and Katie Wells Williams
2. Mrs. A. K. Smith
3. Pastor Eugene James Williams
4. Dipporah Eugenia  & Leah Elizabeth Tyler


 

·         Mr. and Mrs. Jim Q and Katie Wells Williams- My beloved parents my dad is deceased, but you were the most positive role model in my life. My mom just about all of her life helping others and now she has dementia. My sisters have to take care of her I  believe when my dad passed mom could not handle his passing. They taught all 15 children to love, respect, and love God whole heartily.

·         Mrs. A.K. Smith my eight grade teacher I thought that old lady were the meanest lady in the world. All because she use to make me get up in front of the class and read, say a poem, or just introduce myself. She would always say,” One day you may get up and before people and you will not be afraid. Because you will be used to doing it.”

·         Elder Eugene James Williams my third older brother he joined the Navy and retired in it. He was a pastor and loved God and people. I liked that my brother would keep in touch with his family, even if they were his six cousins. He lived the life he preached to others about I never heard my brother say a negative thing about a person. He has gone around the world twice, and he passed at the age of 39. He always wanted me to go to college and get an education, guess what Elder Eugene James Williams I attend at one of the best University in the world Walden University. He would have been so proud of me.

·         Dipporah Eugenia Tyler my daughter for being a great mom to her daughter Leah Elizabeth Tyler. After my husband left us, she got pregnant and tried to commit suicide, and kill the baby. Now when she found out that her moms loved her, she is full of joy. Finished school, working, and plan on going to college to become a massage thaphy.

Describe insights regarding challenges to developing and maintaining relationships that you have learned from your experience over time.
Since, I have grown up I see now that all of these people played a positive role model in my life. I used to see myself a person with low self-esteem, but all of these people help turn my thinking skills around. By not only speaking not what I cannot accomplish but what I can accomplish.  They are the reason why I am trying to make something out of my life. I also learned from my family’s that anything is possible only if I believe it, and it is never too late in accomplishing your dreams. I have also gained that no matter, what people sees or think of it is what I think of myself is going to lead me to success.

What do you see as special characteristics of these relationships that make some if any, partnerships?
In all of these people have excellent faith, confident, and wanted the same things for me. To get up from my pity bed and get upon the success wagon and be the best teacher, I can be. I can do just that because The University of Walden and the professors are great and warm and help me in accomplishing these goals. Walden and those professors will always be in my life, and I can honestly say that I love Walden University and the professors. They are the best, and this is straight up out of my sanitized heart. Tyler, C., B. (2013).